Just a quick update on life here ....

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Just a quick update on life here ....
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Mon, 09-26-2005 - 6:22am

I've been so busy the past week ... havent been around. Things are i suppose, still pretty much the same. Stalled it seems. Divorce takes TOO LONG! Sheesh.


From that front - my atty will be sending our 1st settlement offer to his sometime in the next couple of weeks. It wont be welcomed with open arms since he wants 50% & we are offering 24% of what our assetts total.

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Registered: 09-17-2004
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 8:34am

I'm sorry your STBX is back to his old tricks :(

Sanguine
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 9:41am

I think that you might have some success in proving that he just didn't work (took advantage) to his full capabilities, hence one factor in leading toward divorce.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 10:33am

Good for you girl. I cant believe how our ex's are so similar in some ways. My ex too, blames me for "taking everything he worked hard for away from him". As if I did nothing to contribute to the house. He blames me for ruining his life. Also not realizing that it was HIS ACTIONS that put him in the predicament he's in now. I just dont get it. He is even saying he is going to sue me for "his stuff", unbelievable. He cares more about the material things then he does the baby. Says he's so angry because Im keeping his things from him. WHAT! Does he acknowledge what he did that got him where he is now, NO. So if he wants to sue me then so be it. I cant believe how shallow he's being right now. It's like a completely different man than from the man I fell in love with.

Good luck girl.

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 1:50pm
Rebecca, Glad to hear you are doing so well despite your STBX. Hang in there!
Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda