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| Sun, 07-06-2008 - 4:35pm |
I am new to the message boards, but am hopeful it will be helpful. I'm 27 years old; married a year and a half.
I just dropped my son (15 months) at his father's for the night. We just separated 2 months ago and my son and I just moved back in with my parents. My husband has yet to accept that this is a reality and keeps thinking that we will get back together, although he has a funny way of showing it. He continues to be verbally abusive and threatens me that if I leave and don't let him see his son then "something will happen." I recorded these threats on my cell phone; when I question him about it when he is in a calmer mood, he says that he doesn't mean it, but I'm not sure what to do.
Every time we talk now to discuss something about our son, he either acts like a victim, pretends to be sad, tries to make me feel guilty about something, or screams (i.e., extreme moodiness is one reason why we are divorcing). I am so not in love with this man anymore and

Green,
Hi. Glad you found us here. I hope you find it helpful.
I wonder if
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
I would also recommend counselling for yourself.