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Just an update - 1 year later ...
| Mon, 11-05-2007 - 3:45pm |
It was one year ago yesterday that I heard my then
| Mon, 11-05-2007 - 3:45pm |
It was one year ago yesterday that I heard my then
Brenda,
Thank you so much for posting from the "other side." My husband told me he wanted a divorce in July, and he moved out just four days ago. Right now, I am too depressed to get out of bed, unless I'm absolutely forced (as is the case today), and I cannot imagine ever getting over it. Beside me on my bed is a mountain of Kleenex, and an even bigger mountain of self-help books. One minute, I think there's hope (because he has invited me to dinner each night he's been gone, and we did lunch a few times), and the next, I think he's just being nice to assauge his ego and prevent this from getting ugly in the public eye. I don't know what's better--having no hope, or clinging to something that may be too long gone.
It is my birthday this week, and I am determined by my big day to commit to paper a snapshot of what I'd like my life to resemble a year from now--what do I want for myself spiritually, emotionally, professionally, location-wise, etc.? I think articulating what I desire will give me a roadmap to follow when I can't see my way.
I am so glad to hear things are looking up for you. You sound strong, and I pray I get there someday, too.
Hugs,
M
M-
It is so true that time will heal wounds.
hello it has been one year for me also on 11-06.