just venting ---- my ex called my father

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Registered: 04-02-2003
just venting ---- my ex called my father
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Sun, 11-27-2005 - 1:40pm

to *talk* about MY SON!!! to give ME some ideas about how to help MY SON!!! arghhhh. what the H**L is it his business what my son is doing.... and why does my father talk to him??? i told my father that i know that he (father) doesn't understand why i feel this way, but it reallllly creeps me out that my ex is having thoughts and ideas about my son (this is not HIS son, he was my son's step father, and he was very abusive to us both).


i mean - wouldn't you think that if he really cared about my son, the way he claims, that he wouldn't have ABUSED him? and isn't it creepy that its been TWO YEARS since we separated - why is he still thinking about my son????


thanks for letting me vent....

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 11-29-2005 - 11:27am

EEEEEkkkkkk!!!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Tue, 11-29-2005 - 1:11pm

thanks sweetie!!


I am just trying to get my father to understand that its *OK* to be *rude* to my ex, if being *nice* to him means that he is hurting me or my son.


my father is just too nice....


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Registered: 02-19-2004
Tue, 11-29-2005 - 11:52pm

That is really weird!

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Wed, 11-30-2005 - 12:50pm

i have NOTHING to do with my ex. my choice. he tried, at times, especially in the beginning, to stay in contact. he was in contact with members of my family - supposedly to try and get us back together or God knows what. there were people in my family who thought that they would "help" by being nice to him (this was between the time that i left him and the time that we actually divorced because he was holding up the divorce). no matter how much i told people that ex is manipulative and abusive - and no matter how NICE people are to him, it doesn't matter..... didn't help. apparenltly now he calls my dad from time to time. it just creeps me out to think that he is thinking about my son - i don't know how to explain this, i just feel violated....


i spoke with my dad again - i gave him 'replies', i told him to blame me - i don't care. i can't FORBID my father from talking to ex, but i told my dad the he does not have my permission to share A-N-Y-T-H-I-n-G from MY life or from my sons' life....