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Just wondering
| Fri, 03-16-2007 - 6:01pm |
I have been trying to heal following my marriage breakup. It seems though that when I have to have contact with my STBX, I take a few steps backwards, it drains and really saddends me. Does anyone feel like this too

I think what you're feeling after seeing your x is definitely normal and is one of the reasons that some choose to go no or limited contact... x and I could only talk about four things--the divorce, our child, our dogs, or our mutual bills...
Limiting it to that helped to create some of the boundaries that need to be created during a divorce... now I'm not on great terms with xh, but we can have a decent conversation about 75% of the time...