Karma?

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Registered: 03-03-2006
Karma?
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Sun, 01-07-2007 - 9:38pm

My XH is pathetic. Let's give a quick summary:

Kicked him out because he wouldn't work or come home

He cheated on me with a close friend and got her prego but denied the whole 9 months to me and to our DD face

I had to pay for the divorce

Continously behind in CS

Don't believe he paid last years taxes

Just had another baby on welfare lives his GF and his momma

Tells me how bad of a parent I am

Well as of today's date he is $3701.66 behind in CS and my sister (who always picks up my DD for me so I don't have to puke in my mouth when I see or hear him) said on his front door was an EVICTION notice. He is due to go to court in 2 days for CS.

I hope this is the beginning of Karma but then again he always knows hows to crawl out from under the rock he lives........

just thought I would share.....

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: nefer_tt
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 1:29am

Karma... I love it!


I picture the Karma van must look like the hippie van from Scooby Doo :-)


Keep us updated as things change... and hang on for the ride.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 11-28-2006
In reply to: nefer_tt
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 7:54am
my only advice is to go ahead & learn how toget by without a dime from him.
My child is 15, and I just got a letter about the CS.
He is currently $25,800 behind on his payments.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: nefer_tt
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 8:39am

That was definitely something that I "planned"... on not getting child support.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 12-21-2006
In reply to: nefer_tt
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 10:13am
My daughter has a step daughter and the child support is taken out of her husbands weekly checks. It could have something to do with Health n Welfare. not sure but perhaps that is an order that can be done for anyone if the spouse has regular employment. even on changing jobs it stays with him. so might be something to look into.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: nefer_tt
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 10:19am
Ah ya.... BUT... many EX spouses jump from job to job, and it does take time for the paper trail to keep up with them.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 12-21-2006
In reply to: nefer_tt
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 10:30am
Oh yeah and if self employed there is nothig you can do. I think they will garnish his tax return oh whoops he probably has to pay if he is self employed.
My STBX when we were divorced before he always paid his child support. always was never late.
He had alot of good qualities but treating me nice was not one of them. but even if spite of the abuse he did pay his CS and for that I am lucky.
If I still had kids at home with a guy who didnt pay child support I would do everything I could to make him feel soooooo guilty,. what is wrong with these men? and I see there is big percentage of them.
that is great that they have it so he can lose his licenses. I know a guy who was put in jail for non payment of back child support. in fact a relative LOL
Now in this divorce we have a debt he is to satisfy and he knows that if he doesnt he could get in trouble for contempt of court.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: nefer_tt
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 10:47am

Yup!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 12-21-2006
In reply to: nefer_tt
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 11:02am
You go get em girl!!
You know the title of this thread has me thinking, I wonder what kind of Karma my STBX and his married girlfriend will get? She doesnt want to leave her current husband but told him well he HAS had two heart attacks. I am thinking .....what on earth is that about?
My STBX has already lost a great job offer he thought he had.....it fell through he thinks. I wonder, just wonder if that is the beginning of his Karma.
I have been worried about anyone changing the divorce papers ie he and his lawyer go to court when he said it was uncontested but HE decides to ask for something different then what is in HIS complaint. BUT I read on our state site that if he was to go to court and ask for any changes in the initial complaint ...ie anything at all that isnt exactly like in the complaint that he has to have a written statement from me.
I hope that is right that this is default divorce and not some other kind. oh I am losing my mind.
I am still crying off and on and we had a bad marriage. it was emotionally empty and hurtful for me. but have read how a traumatic bond is stronger than a normal one. Yesterday every time I looked at him or he said something to me even in a kind voice I started crying. This is not like me at all, I am usually a strong person who does not cry easily. well here I go ranting again LOL