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| Sun, 01-07-2007 - 9:38pm |
My XH is pathetic. Let's give a quick summary:
Kicked him out because he wouldn't work or come home
He cheated on me with a close friend and got her prego but denied the whole 9 months to me and to our DD face
I had to pay for the divorce
Continously behind in CS
Don't believe he paid last years taxes
Just had another baby on welfare lives his GF and his momma
Tells me how bad of a parent I am
Well as of today's date he is $3701.66 behind in CS and my sister (who always picks up my DD for me so I don't have to puke in my mouth when I see or hear him) said on his front door was an EVICTION notice. He is due to go to court in 2 days for CS.
I hope this is the beginning of Karma but then again he always knows hows to crawl out from under the rock he lives........
just thought I would share.....

Karma... I love it!
I picture the Karma van must look like the hippie van from Scooby Doo :-)
Keep us updated as things change... and hang on for the ride.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
My child is 15, and I just got a letter about the CS.
He is currently $25,800 behind on his payments.
That was definitely something that I "planned"... on not getting child support.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
My STBX when we were divorced before he always paid his child support. always was never late.
He had alot of good qualities but treating me nice was not one of them. but even if spite of the abuse he did pay his CS and for that I am lucky.
If I still had kids at home with a guy who didnt pay child support I would do everything I could to make him feel soooooo guilty,. what is wrong with these men? and I see there is big percentage of them.
that is great that they have it so he can lose his licenses. I know a guy who was put in jail for non payment of back child support. in fact a relative LOL
Now in this divorce we have a debt he is to satisfy and he knows that if he doesnt he could get in trouble for contempt of court.
Yup!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
You know the title of this thread has me thinking, I wonder what kind of Karma my STBX and his married girlfriend will get? She doesnt want to leave her current husband but told him well he HAS had two heart attacks. I am thinking .....what on earth is that about?
My STBX has already lost a great job offer he thought he had.....it fell through he thinks. I wonder, just wonder if that is the beginning of his Karma.
I have been worried about anyone changing the divorce papers ie he and his lawyer go to court when he said it was uncontested but HE decides to ask for something different then what is in HIS complaint. BUT I read on our state site that if he was to go to court and ask for any changes in the initial complaint ...ie anything at all that isnt exactly like in the complaint that he has to have a written statement from me.
I hope that is right that this is default divorce and not some other kind. oh I am losing my mind.
I am still crying off and on and we had a bad marriage. it was emotionally empty and hurtful for me. but have read how a traumatic bond is stronger than a normal one. Yesterday every time I looked at him or he said something to me even in a kind voice I started crying. This is not like me at all, I am usually a strong person who does not cry easily. well here I go ranting again LOL