Karma...

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Registered: 02-14-2005
Karma...
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Mon, 09-04-2006 - 10:15am

it's a BEAUTIFUL thing!! several things have happened over the past few months...

1. the skank he cheated on me with, who was engaged at the time (married the guy last year) is now separated from her husband... because... HE CHEATED ON HER!! LOL... i love it...

2. I'd heard rumors that my XH had been "let go" from his job (he always thought they couldn't live without him)... well i found out it is true... apparently someone at the company he worked for threatened a lawsuit against XH and the company, so they gave him a choice of leaving on his own... or being fired... i guess he left on his own... awwww... i wonder how his golddigging GF (and her kid) are going to pay the mortgage on a house they just bought together... and how long she'll be able to pay for his new truck, harley, big screen tv, toys, etc all on her own... i wonder too if that lawyer was retained for a civil lawsuit against him...hmmmmm...

3. he's burned every bridge he ever built in the town he used to live in... (i still live here and recently rented a house with my BF... YA!)... even his best friend has bashed him publically and told a mutual friend of ours how much of an a@@h0l3 he is... and that he's moody and unpredictable... interestingly he seems to have taken after his dad after all....

he left me because he wanted to be happy... i wonder how that's working out for him... i'm doing great!! i'm ME again... and i've moved on with my life... it was hard work and took a lot of time... but my friends are happy to have "me" back... now i'm the one who is happy and much better off...

to some of you this may seem mean... don't get me wrong... i care about and some part of me will always love the man he was... and now all i do is feel sorry for the boy he's become (taking advantage of people's hospitality, partying all the time, ignoring his friends.... wow....what a fall from grace...)...

Ali

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Registered: 05-27-2006
In reply to: aliloves882005
Mon, 09-04-2006 - 1:50pm
Karma is a b****!! Doesn't sound mean to me at all. My XH got married in March to a woman with 3 kids by 2 different dads. We have 2 DD's of our own that he never spent time with because he liked "his" time. Now his new wife works from 12-8:30 at night and he has the kids all the time. He has gained about 30 lbs. and he use to lecture me about being overweight. (I have lost 60) He married a woman that is everything he didn't want to be involved with. I have had so many people say to me, "Why did he let himself go since he married this woman? " He always seems so unhappy...unlike me who couldn't be happier....not because of his unhappiness just because I am where I want to be in my life. I guess it is true....what goes around comes around!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: aliloves882005
Mon, 09-04-2006 - 2:58pm

Nah... doesn't sound bitter at all... I think we all have our times when we realize that things are turning out better than expected on our side and perhaps not so well on the other...

(My moment was when I got xh's income tax refund for non payment of CS)

*hugs*

Julie

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: aliloves882005
Wed, 09-06-2006 - 3:04pm
Not mean at all.... it's just KARMA... and it's a very real thing that does come 'round.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~