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| Sun, 03-09-2008 - 4:39pm |
hello... i am a 1st time poster, but had to get some other ladies opinions. my problem is my husband of 5 yrs, will absolutely NOT support me or stand up for me in ANY situation. ever. this has proven true when it comes to a stranger making a rude comment right infront of us about me, and even worse, now he has decided to side with our cat who will urinate and deficate on my side of the bed, or my clothes only. i have told him it is a behavior thing, the cat is being malicious but he stated that if i got rid of the cat there would be problems. so, i told him i was leaving, and taking our 2 year old, and he did not have anything to say about that. i have been gone out of state for 2 weeks now, and he doesn't seem to mind that we are gone. this from a man who LIVED for his baby. of course the cat is still at home. he has had so many oppertunities to stand up for me when a stranger comments rudely about me but he will simply say, "oh, i didn't hear it" or "i wasn't there so i don't know." i have NEVER lied to him or given him reason not to trust me. i have stood by his side 100% time & again. I know you don't know us but mabye some random insight as to why a man would let his wife be so alone when it comes to needing some support will help me. thank you in advance...

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~