Ladies~Do you think most Ex's~~~~

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Registered: 07-27-2002
Ladies~Do you think most Ex's~~~~
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Thu, 09-01-2005 - 12:21pm

miss us and think about us? .. Especially if there not the ones that really want the divorce and the sexual chemistry was very intense right up to the end. And is afraid they'll never get that connection again with someone like that.

And there in there 50's,and are not one to date alot

Has any one else ever wondered that.

I know you girls are gonna think i'm dwelling on things, but talking like this is very theraputic for me.

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Thu, 09-01-2005 - 3:09pm
I hope so and I hope he regrets walking out on me for the rest of his life. He has no idea what he gave up. Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Registered: 11-02-2004
Thu, 09-01-2005 - 4:45pm
I wonder. I think about my ex all the time. I was the one that left, and have moved on immensly but it seems the more I try to forget about him, the more I find him in my thoughts. For the longest time I heard from him all the time, then all of a sudden it stopped. I think it was when he found out I was engaged. He knew I was living with someone and knew how serious the relationship was. I sent him an email a few weeks back and haven't heard anything. He never calls or stops by to see me anymore. It feels weird. Someone that was part of your life for so long, to just be gone, but I suppose that's what I wanted when I filed for divorce.

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Registered: 07-27-2002
Thu, 09-01-2005 - 11:14pm

Well I think I'll be able to get over my Ex quicker, probably than most, because I wasn't with him very long and also because of all what he has done to me...

But~I do know that about 5 weeks ago he wrote me a letter and told me that he thinks of me EVERY MINUTE OF THE DAY~~but then 2 weeks later he wants us to sign divorce papers, because his time frame isn't going according to HIS plan...He has some VERY serious issues..LOL

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Registered: 09-03-2004
Thu, 09-01-2005 - 11:21pm
Hi there -
My divorce has been final for 8 months now. My xh is a very controlling and abusive person, but he could also be very charming when he wanted to.
So yes, I still think about him alot but mostly I think "oh my god if he knew about this or that he would be furious". It takes a long time to heal the wounds of 23 years. But I'm doing it a day at a time.
But I also think about him and hope to god he is miserable without me and the kids, cause he never appreciated how great we all were and what we meant to him as family.
I think it is perfectly normal to think about him and then of course move on. I consider it therapy to think about him and then know that I don't have to answer to him anymore!
Hang in there, it's going to get better.
e
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 7:26am

I'm sure!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 09-17-2004
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 9:36am
I could care less if my STBX thinks of me.
Sanguine