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| Tue, 05-09-2006 - 12:06pm |
We are suppose to sign our seperation agreement on Friday but today I got a text message from my stbx that says, "if u need to call me then u have to call "my sister in law" 2 get me no more games".
As far as I'm concerned that is a game. He wants me to contact him through the same woman who threatened to morgage her house to get an attorney to take custody of our daughter from me. This is the same woman that said I wasn't even allowed to email her pictures of my daughter...and now I'm suppose to contact my stbx through her?!
What would/could an attorney say or do about this? Does this warrant sole custody?

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Consider your words carefully before you post - please direct your comments to the topic of the discussion, rather than to personal judgments/comments about individuals who are in the discussion.
It's tough to admit that you've been rubbed raw by the situation. I hope you find support her.
It may be to your benefit, to turn things around on him for now, and insist he contact YOU through a mediator. Remove yourself from the drama so you can think clearly about what YOU need to do. Emotions have a way of making us do unwise things in divorce; let someone listen to whatever he says, give the information to you in a dispassionate way, and let you make your decisions rationally and calmly.
ITA, Karen!
And to justme, please know that we are here to support you. Like Karen said, sometimes when we post here, we're in a state of high emotion, and we just need to get it all out.
We're here to listen and get through this together.
How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.
- Anne Frank
My stbx and I have been able to communicate a little bit today and make progress towards a seperation agreement that we both are willing to sign. Communication is still strained at best. All I can do is pray that he comes around and sees that I'm asking for what is our right to have and not "having my cake and eating it too" like he feels.
I know he must be so stressed out right now. I can't imagine what he's going through, especially if the rumors about his gf being pregnant are true. He's messed up his career big time lately and he's very angry right now.
I think time will heal a lot of the communication strain. I guess we're kind of in the heat of the battle right now. I can't wait for it to be over.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
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