Letting the kids see his girlfriend.
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| Thu, 02-22-2007 - 5:08pm |
Someone help me.. I can't do anything without bursting into tears.
I'm trying so hard not to be the typical soon to be ex wife. My stbx left me for his current girlfriend. He decided for his own sake he'd like to drag this whole thing out and just remain married until he had enough money... basicly he wants to live his bachelor life.. movies, concerts, bars, video games, dates with his girlfriend.. ect ect.
We have two kids together(both are under the age of five). He moved out he's refused to help me pay for ANYTHING and he still wants me to let him see them.. (I make less money than him!.. I mean like ALOT less.) Recently he's started pushing me to let him have the kids around his girlfriend. He's complaining that his girlfriend is getting upset about me not "accepting her" and letting her see the kids.WHAT THE HELL. I said 'NO/GET A LAWYER' basicly.
Well he hasn't and I met with my possible divorce lawyer.. I know sooner or later I'm gonna have to let go and let him have the kids around her. God I feel like I'm breaking.. she took my husband and now she wants my kids.

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What also sucks is I met a REALLY nice man and I am a bit of a wrek and will probably F up the relationship (rebound). Told him exactly where I am at and that we need to be no more than friends until I get a separation agreement in hand. Also, my boys won't be able to meet him for a long, long time since they are already stressed by meeting the adultress whore prematurely. Not that I would want them to, just pointing it out.
Edited 3/6/2007 12:20 pm ET by amyality
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