Living in limbo

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Living in limbo
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Tue, 03-25-2008 - 11:58am

To recap, last week, DH & I had a discussion about getting a divorce.

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Registered: 03-01-2008
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 12:40pm
I remember reading your story the other day...I'll have to go re read it.

 

 

 

 

 

******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again
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Registered: 03-01-2008
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 12:43pm
Ok...I reread!

 

 

 

 

 

******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again
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Registered: 03-04-2008
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 4:02pm

I am so sorry for you. Its sad to be in that place.


I read that you are seeing a Therapist, is H seeing one also?


The thing is he could be afraid to say anything for fear of being rejected. He has already been divorced once.


Is this really what you want? Could his daughter moving out to be withher GM being having an impact. Rejected from the 1st wife, then rejected by his daughter and now rejected by his 2nd wife. That is alot of Rejection for anyone to take.


One last question..In your heart of hearts..What do YOU want?


I am not sure I have anything else to offer.


stunned08


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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 4:09pm

I believe that may be true.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 4:15pm

To clarify, DH"s first wife (the mother of his DD) died.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 03-26-2008 - 11:07am

I just can't "get" DH's behavior.

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Registered: 03-01-2008
Wed, 03-26-2008 - 12:12pm
A 2nd divorce is hard so I understand why you are trying to justify reasons for it.

 

 

 

 

 

******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 03-26-2008 - 12:25pm

You are right about that one.

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Registered: 03-01-2008
Wed, 03-26-2008 - 12:31pm
Yep, and as you know life is full of the unexpected, obstacles and challenges.

 

 

 

 

 

******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again