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Fri, 08-22-2008 - 4:17am

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Registered: 07-30-2008
In reply to: shanie08
Fri, 08-22-2008 - 8:28am

shanie,


Sorry to say that it isn't about the credit cards. It is much deeper than that. Yes,you lied and yes you kept something from him. But those things can worked out.


Ask him to go to councoling with you, if he doesn't.. well than it wasn't the cards. People use minor things when are thinking they want out.


My husband wanted out for years before he spilled the beans on the phone 4 weeks ago. My life coach told me he checked out a long time ago...


be strong, love your kids and keep posting

"This new  path I must lead will lead me to europhoria"

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: shanie08
Fri, 08-22-2008 - 12:29pm
I agree that there is more to this than the credit cards.... and if you're going to try to fix it, you have to figure out what really lies beneath.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: shanie08
Fri, 08-22-2008 - 1:37pm

I agree w/ the others to see if he will try counselling.