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| Fri, 03-02-2007 - 1:54pm |
First of all I was very confused by the responses to my previous post because half of them seem to be directed towards someone else completely.
But its kind of offensive to say that I bash my ex in front of my kids, when I do not. I dont correct them when they disrespect him because he does deserve it. He needs to see what he has done to them, they were NEVER like this before. They are hurting. They disrespect him when I am there or not, he doesnt know how to discipline them. If my daughter continues to call me and tell me he hit her, pushed her up the steps, grabbed her by her throat...she has every right to be mad with him and I believe she needs to get that out so he can see exactly what he is doing to her. The fact that the cops do not take me seriously when I have voicemails to prove it also makes me sick. Yet I have to take them there to see him? Crazy. He is messing my kids up emotionally in horrible ways and I can only control what I do. Even the counselor knows this...he needs to work on them the right way and talk to them, so they dont disrespect him, that its not my issue to handle.

Maybe you can talk to your kids about what is OK for dad to do... and not do... and if their dad is being abusive toward them, THEY need to call 911 and get help.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~