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maybe I'll live here.....
| Mon, 07-28-2008 - 11:12am |
Still no word about the settlement STBX proposed to get out of his deposition last week-still hoping I did the right thing there but after killing myself in the yard all weekend I took a leap of faith and contacted a real estate agent who covers the area I had visited with a friend earlier this summer. I had been on line and

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Great!!! So happy for you.
Do you just ever feel like Alice in Wonderland or ET or you know just totally out of your element? I will be 53 this month-never handled any finances despite the fact that I worked continually and I'm conversing with this real estate agent on line and looking at places to live and feeling great that emotionnally I know this is the next step. Then bam! I
I think if you are comfortable with the condo, then go for it.
Thanks for the advice.
The only thing I knew for sure when I knew it was really over was that I needed to move as far from him as possible. There is no way I could stand to bump into him everywhere I went. I have a brother with MS living about 2 hours from me and I am the closest family so I do feel some responsibility to stay close enough to help him and visit. The issue of needing to go back to work has played a part too and the school system in the area I've found has several openings but I'd have to recertify for that state and I just worry knowing that after 30 years I am burned out with schools. If I could get a job there I would need to move sooner rather than later but I know other places will have jobs too.
I heard Chely Wright's song the other day, on the radio............."Shut up and Drive".....it really struck home.
I'm going to listen to that song-sure sounds right! I spent Wed. with my brother and driivng back I switched radio stations and the 1st notes of George Strait's song "She let herself go" were on-one of the 1st songs I latched onto when this began-couldn't believe it but sang it as loudly as I could going down the road.
I know you hate this hurry up and wait mentality of this. It's not like we've invented divorce-people everywhere are doing it let's work on the paperwork process-dates-deadlines-just tell us when and where to sign and move to the next guy.
My STBX closed our joint acct-did give me $500-and cut up credit cards after telling me we were divorcing. I had NO money to retain a lawyer much less anything else-anyway my lawyer is holding my grandma's
Yea, liked your comment "we wonder if both the lawyers went to Las Vegas together".........it's crossed my mind.
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