Mediation today

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Mediation today
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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 8:34pm

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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 10:35pm
GL Iladyja. I hope refi works for you. Tough, tough stuff--this property division. It just stinks.
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 7:50am
Hey girl. I'm so sorry that you had a stressful day. I think you showed great restraint, because I would have clawed that lawyers eyes out. I just hate it when lawyers try to make you the bad guy when they have no IDEA what went on in the marriage. All they know is what STBX told them and I'm pretty sure that he's not going to tell her what an angelic wife you've been. I just wanted to tell you that I'm sorry that you have to deal with this and offer you hugs. Hope all goes well with the house and that things get better, or at the very least, a little less stressful.
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 9:41am

I'm no angel by no means.

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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 10:40am

Sounds like it was a pretty exhausting day.

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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 11:46am
Yea, that was it........buying something to make me feel good. But when realized what I was doing I stopped.
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 3:49pm

It became that he wanted me to make all the changes and as it got worse, I realized he would never change and not matter how many changes I made in myself.........it would never be enough.

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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 5:03pm
My DD thinks STBX is bipolar.