Missing being married
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Missing being married
| Thu, 02-01-2007 - 3:57pm |
I really miss my ex-husband, and his son. I really loved the both of them. I have a son of my own, and should put all my engery into him. The marriage is over, but I still want to call and talk to him. He has a girlfriend, and that's all I can think about, him with her. It hurts so bad. I loved being married, I guess I wasn't very good at it. Sorry about jumping back in forth, my feelings are just so jumbled these days. I just want to let go, but I don't know how. I have not called him, so I guess that is a start. Why can men go go out and get some, and be okay. While I'm sitting here missing him like crazy. I try to stay busy, but it dosen't matter, all the thoughts creep back into my head. I feel totally alone, and lost. Nobody wants to hear me go on about my marriage/divorce, anymore. So this the only only place I can. Is there anyone out there who has felt this way, tell me how they got over the love of their life.

You sound like my exhusband, he loved being married but he didn't love me.
Hugs, Brenda
Hugs, Brenda
I understand. There is nothing wrong with you loving your husband. But try to find something to fill the void you have right now whether its a boyfriend to date or a new exciting hobby. We have to control our minds somehow and NOT think of them with her~
I have decided to stay in contact with mine. for a while. Some on here will say that is wrong and some wont. I dont have the time or desire right now to Find a man. I want to concentrate on my career and my hobbies. If he marrys the woman some day so be it .......but he is leaving to go work out of town and will be coming here on weekends ....she is furthur away LOL But I think my husband has a serious issue with mid life crisis right now.
anyway I do understand you still loving him. If you really feel it is completely over than perhaps a new guy in your life will help. We get attached to our loved ones and when they leave or die we are devastated. But remember: THERE ARE STILL ICE CREAM CONES TO EAT!
We are friendly to each other and i sometimes think that makes it harder. He had another girlfriend who he recently broke up with(not the ow, that one ended last xmas). He hasn't ever been on his own, it seems like he can't be.
I miss sharing thing with someone. I miss being close to someone and enjoying the intimacy with someone.
I am trying my best to get on with my life, just started a gym and focusing on myself and hoping that soon, not sure when, but i will be ready to take a chance again with someone.
I think that is all we can do right now is focus on us.
Hugs to you.