My Ex is an A$$hole Too! Can't Believe

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Registered: 10-20-2004
My Ex is an A$$hole Too! Can't Believe
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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 7:27pm
that he just called me to watch his girlfriend's dog while they went to dinner???!!! This was NOT an amicable divorce. He was having an affair -- this this woman! I don't get it. Is anyone really that oblivious? It's infuriating -- he shows me repeatedly how he has absolutely no respect for me. I told him not to call me again with anything so stupid. I really wanted to rant and scream and whatever --- but why let him see how mad he got me.
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Registered: 07-08-2004
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 7:12am
Oh....my......GOD! That is really a classic. Is he SERIOUS???
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Registered: 10-20-2004
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 7:26am
unfortunately, yes, he was absolutely serious. it just shows what garbage he considers me. i'm furious, but there's nothing i can do about it without giving away to him how upset i am over it.
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Registered: 06-11-2004
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 8:41am
Why the heck is he calling you to ask you to watch his gf's dog. Is he on drugs. Where did that come from.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 9:27am
Gheez..... HE sounds like the dog, to me.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 10-20-2004
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 4:06pm
Yes, he is. My therapist said that he most likely suffers from narcisstic personality disorder. Right. More like I suffer from his narcisstic personality disorder. Puts himself first; has never put himself in anyone elses shoes, etc.
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Registered: 01-29-2006
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 4:16pm

I think he's trying to get a rise out of you, and I'm glad you didn't him the satisfaction. What a jerk. Peace.

Laura

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Tue, 03-14-2006 - 5:17pm

My ex-husband's therapist started to think that perhaps he had Asperger's Syndrome. It's actually on the autistic spectrum and people who have it tend to have no empathy and are unable to understand how their actions affect anyone else. UGH, one more reason for him to be difficult to live with.

Melanie

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Registered: 03-08-2006
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 7:38pm
My counselor seemed to think my husband was a narcissist as well. There was a possiblity he was a mysogynist except he didn't physically abuse me. What's sad is I brought this up to him when we were having a civil conversation and he actually thought it was funny when I explained what each of the terms meant. He actually went to work and bragged about it the next day! I can't help but think if it were me, I'd be embarrassed. Maybe he didn't realize it's a personality disorder!
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Registered: 10-21-2005
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 9:59pm

my stbx hasn't asked that YET..but I'm sure something of the sort will come up soon..
my therapist is convinced that my stbx as well suffers from narcisstic personality disorder...

I like that "More like I suffer from his narcisstic personality disorder" ain't that the truth!

Unbelievable!