my ex is such a JERK

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Registered: 04-25-2003
my ex is such a JERK
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Wed, 02-22-2006 - 12:17pm

Why do I even bother? I've been divorced for a year from a very difficult man and since then have remarried and had a baby. (yes I move fast, no I did not know my current hubby while I was married)
Anyway I was trying to get my taxes and money in order and had a question about my settlement, so after calling several people wher my ex used to work and getting nowhere. I had to bite the bullet call the b@tthole. After explaining what I need he gets all angry and defensive and here is what he says:
"Let me be as plain and simple as possible so that you can understand.

YOU GOT EVERYTHING DECREED IN THE DIVORCE.

YOU GET NOTHING ELSE.

WE ARE DONE!

I want nothing more to do with you in any way, shape, form, or fashion. This is my last communication with you.

Fare Well.

- Douglas"
Now, I am not asking for more settlement, I am simply trying to locate some stock that I was awarded in the settlemt. Money I am entitled to after wasting 10 years of my life with this JERK!
He acts like I am trying to get more money from him. This stock is worth ALOT of money and now I suspect he is hiding it. He only gets defensive when he has done something wrong and gets caught. What a weeny...
So my asnwer back to him was
"You'll here from my lawyer then.
Bitter, party of one please."

What a JERK. Plus, why am I surprised each time when he acts like that to me. I guess I just forget how unhealthy he is. My current hubby is so sweet and kind to me and then I go back to simply ask a question and get kicked in the face.
I guess all communicae will be through the lawyers. I'm SO glad we never had kids. Can you imagine.

I really forgot how mean he was. I won't make that mistake again.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 2:48pm

Ghee... he sounds bitter.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 11-13-2005
Fri, 02-24-2006 - 12:21pm

"Can you imagine"...

Heh, unfortunately I can. I hate thinking that way too, because I don't feel at all unhappy with the fact that I have my precious children, only that I chose this person as their father....bah!

Sending you a hug because even though the complications are different with children; the pain, frustrations and the wanting to disconnect is very much the same and I bet you are very frustrated. Sounds like you are only trying to 'get what was awarded to you', not trying to 'get more'...

I hope you have some peace soon, and best wishes for your current relationship! Annah