my kids, my STBX's SO

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Registered: 05-24-2005
my kids, my STBX's SO
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Fri, 03-16-2012 - 9:20am

SO... for those who haven't been following, and I'm saying it this way because frankly I think it really conveys the shock better, my wife is pregnant with her boyfriend's baby.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Fri, 03-16-2012 - 10:11am

I have been following your story and I am so sad for you and this is def. sick and heartbreaking at the same time.

I would keep suggesting counseling for you and divorce care.. You need alot of help and support and you cant get all of that on a message board.. You really need to start also separating yourself from your wife emotionally and physically. Go and take your own room in the house and try the best you can to live your life and let your wife live hers until you can figure something else out.

You absolutely cannot control or figure out or know why

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Fri, 03-16-2012 - 10:12am

Hey dadfor6,

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Registered: 07-29-2002
Fri, 03-16-2012 - 12:28pm

You need to hire a lawyer, and do that now.

Your wife is playing games and it is only going to get worse.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Fri, 03-16-2012 - 1:50pm

I agree to see a lawyer but dont know what state you are in but what I have found out in some states no one cares who you have an affair with and most of the time its not taken into consideration when pursuing a divorce. From my experience when I got divorced lawyers and judges couldnt care less who me or my stbx was sleeping with or taking up with kids or no kids.. Just my experience.

I am also wondering if your wife is still married to you when she has the baby doesnt your last name go on the birth certificate?? wow. your wife could get child support from you I think unless there is a paternity suit.

yeah; I think your wife is playing sick games.

sorry

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Registered: 05-24-2005
Sat, 03-17-2012 - 12:14am

Hi all.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 03-17-2012 - 11:42am

Yes this is a very odd situation for you to be in. My 2nd exH & I slept in the same bed for the few months until he move out just because neither of us wanted to go sleep somewhere else.

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Registered: 09-21-2011
Mon, 03-19-2012 - 12:42pm

Your story is crazy, I look forward to the day when you tell us the divorce is final, you have the home & the kids and maybe even someday a real woman in your life.

Keep us posted.