My mom and OW

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Registered: 04-27-2003
My mom and OW
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Sun, 10-16-2005 - 8:03pm

Guys, I don't know what to do here.......I am so torn about this and I am apologizing for how long this might be in advance..... here goes


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Registered: 04-02-2003
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 8:10am

angelena! I really don't have any advice for you but i wanted to send you my warmest hugs and prayers. You have had to deal with this garbage for many many years, its very sad and unfortunate - but this is your life. you cannot control other people and you cannot change them. I hope that you can think back to the good times that you had with your mother and let those better memories sustain you during this difficult time.


It would probably be a good idea for you to look into therapy to help you deal with this - all of this: your feelings of betrayal regarding your mother, guilt, anger, frustration and loss.


huge hugs...

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 10:55am
Oh man, I wish I had something to contribute. I am so sorry this is happening to you. I will keep you and your Mom in my prayers. <<<>>>
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