My STBX is an ..........................
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| Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:34am |
@$$hole!
really, he finally gets a job with health insurance for the kids. it was effective friday. do i have insurance cards? no. does he have insurance cards? of course. where do the kids live, with me.
anyway, to make a long story short, ds is sick yesterday, so i need to take him to the doctor. i get the group and id number from stbx. but i need prescriptions. i go to the pharmacy with all the information stbx could give me.
when i go back to pick up the drugs, it's over $300. why, because STBX didn't give me all the necessary information. so i pay for the medication, call stbx and scream at him for being a stupid, f*&^ing idiot for not getting me the cards. then he tells me how to go on line and print the cards off myself.
DO YOU THINK HE COULD HAVE TOLD ME THAT PRIOR TO ANY OF THIS YESTERDAY?????
why do they have to make it so difficult. then he tells me, if you need money, i will send you some. i felt like punching him in his freaking face. i carried his lazy butt for 4 years, i am broke, i have both kids, now he is making twice as much as me, and there he sits, barely giving me 700 a month for two kids. and our cost of living is high. its his way to make me pay for leaving his lazy drunk butt.
i hate him.
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ps-- and in the middle of all this bs, i get a flat tire. ugh!! something has to change for the better and soon!

Ieee! Too much. Some days it is just too much!
Glad, though, he is back at work, got insurance. Hope you will get the max possible in our generous state (ha) from him now that he is working.
I hope he keeps the job and keeps his act together.
I so know what you mean about carrying them. Mine never stopped earning, but man, can he spend and the psychological carrying I had to do (and still do) as well as carrying the household.
My burden has never been as heavy as yours and my situation not nearly at the same crisis level, but I do understand and my heart goes out to you.
M
PS Re your other post ... did I ever say we were the weaker sex? I just don't want folks on the board thinking I am constantly slamming men as if all divorces are their "fault" if ykwim. Just seems like most of 'em are ;-)))
Hang in there dear.. He is an A$$ but you are finally rid of him.
Try to let it go, at least he has a job and you have insurance. Yes, they will make you pay for leaving their drunk a$$es. but you know you are so much better off.
I hope your luck soon turns around!!
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M-
no you didn't. i did and yes, i am men slamming today. and i don't care. i am tired of all of them. my daughter said they should be banished to north and south dakota and left out once a year. sounds like a plan to me. (of course all of the women who live there would be relocated to a much warmer climate and given whatever they need to be happy. :-)
maybe tomorrow, i will feel differently. i just want to scream: man up and do the right thing.
rocket
thanks for responding. how are you holding up??
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ROFL!!!
Because my stbx was born in ND and would LOVE to live in SD! It would be his idea of paradise! So, that would be reward, not punishment to mine. How ironic!
As for holding up ...
It is so deep and so complex and so potentially scarey, I cannot tell you. No, really, I can't. There is some *very* bad stuff going down in my stbx's family and today I connected some dots regarding my stbx's family of origin and I am very worried about the implications for my kids.
I hope I am wrong; I hope the dots don't connect in the way I fear; I hope the current horrific problems for his sisters' kids are *their* problems and don't have causation in the family of origin.
Sorry, being cryptic, but it could be really really bad if this trickles down into my precious family through my stbx.
Just hoping it's nothing to do with us and my girls can stay safe in their own world.
Thanks for asking.
M