My STBX is........

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Registered: 02-23-2006
My STBX is........
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Tue, 01-30-2007 - 9:43pm

a moron.

enough said.

c

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Registered: 02-23-2006
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 2:56pm

Hey ny

i am doing ok, getting used to the new house. my ds has not left stbx yet. i am worried about him, but i am letting him take it at his own pace.

it has to get better.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2006
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 5:32pm
a lying, cheating bastard!!! Uh-oh, can I say that?
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Registered: 12-21-2006
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 5:46pm
A MANIPULATIVE DECEITFUL LYING CHEATER!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Registered: 12-21-2006
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 5:52pm

She gets my vote too!! You know I have actually had similar thoughts over the last few years. Thinking we should just let them out when we need them to do something or give us sex.
Ya Know the male species really should get their ducks in a row and become human beings or that just could happen in the future.

Wish someone would make a movie similar to that. It could be like the Stepford wives
only all the men have to live on the Island of The Deceitful. they can even have their own church called the Church of the Deceitful

aw shucks I aint bitter now am I ?

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Registered: 01-29-2005
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 6:46pm

I'm not trying to member moderate here, but I don't think it's fair to start making blanket statements on how terrible all men are. There are men who lurk and post here, and don't deserve to be labeled as not worthy to be called a human being.

Women cheat, lie, and deceive too.

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Registered: 02-23-2006
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 9:11pm

true gwen

my stbx is not a cheater, that was my role. (truth be told)

unless of course you consider booze to be the ow??

all i ever wanted was a house, two kids, a dog and that freakin white picket fence. makes me very, very sad.

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Registered: 12-21-2006
Fri, 02-02-2007 - 4:49am
We were joking.LOL
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Registered: 01-29-2005
Fri, 02-02-2007 - 10:14am

Dolly, I wasn't making a comment on the entire thread, just to you.

Maybe I missed it but, from what I read, people were taking shots at their exes, which I totally understand, but then in your post it turned into man bashing.

I'm just saying that it's not fair to do that.

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Registered: 12-21-2006
Fri, 02-02-2007 - 10:26am
Sorry you misunderstood. I was responding and agreeing with posts number 6 and 7 about putting all men on an island....... They were joking, I am sure, and so was I when I agreed in joking way.
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Registered: 01-29-2005
Fri, 02-02-2007 - 10:34am

Dolly, the thing is it doesn't sound like you're joking. It sounds a lot like the normal way you post.

I think this is my cue to take a break from the boards. I've been trying to be fairly quiet around here lately because the purpose of this board is to unconditionally support each other through what is an extremely difficult situation for all of us that are here. I'm not being helpful or supportive when I allow myself to get frustrated and then express it.

Dolly, I truly hope you are able to find some peace with your husband/ex-husband. Take care.




Edited 2/2/2007 10:35 am ET by gwen227