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| Sat, 06-09-2007 - 4:28pm |
I married my best friend, who I thought was my soul mate, life partner...I met him in a chat room back in 1999 so I thought I knew him well enought...He was orginally from Australia...So I was not opposed to going thru the "Green Card" process with him...Well we got married and I thought everything was good with our marriage...Well, I guess I was wrong when push came to shove and when I was ready for us to move to Phoenix, Arizona so that I can finish up my education and for us to start our married life (we been living with my Mom to save up money to move) he wanted out...So at Easter Time this year I went to Phoenix, Arizona to start getting things started to find out he never had any intentions of ever moving out there (when that is all we ever talked about is moving out there to start our married life together and start our dreams together)...Well, I get this phone call when I was out there saying "I have taken off my wedding ring, I don't know my feelings or intentions toward you and I have moved out" (On top off all this I was out there on a family vacation my 87 yr old Grandma lives out there and was looking foreward to having me move out there so she could have family live out there)...So there was alot riding on the move out there...So when I got back to where I am from and living Michigan I met up with him and he said in one breath I want a separation and in the next I want a divorce...So I tried to get things worked out in counseling...He wants none of that...He wants to stand on his own two feet and be done with all relationships (Now he is telling me he has a special friend...Makes me think)...All he wants from me is a friendship...Well, I signed up for marriage...Not a friendship...He also emptied all of our accounts that we had...He owes me about $4,000 in cash and $2,000 in unpaid bills...And now he tells me he never had any intentions of having childern with me...When he knew I wanted them...So now it is time for the restrictions to be takin off of his "Green Card" and I am going to try with all my power for that not to happen...He did not go into this marriage with all the intentions...I have some friends that will be willing to testify to abuse they saw (Verbal) unbecoming to an marriage...And my counselor who saw him will also testify to the fact that he did not get into this marriage for the right reasons...It is such a shame...I feel so used...I think I said it all...Feel free to respond...

Wow!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Oh my gosh. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, finish your education, and find someone who treats you wonderfully. Thank God you have no kids with him. Get out while you can and build your self esteem and look around. There are better men out there.
Just some advice. And another good thing: you have learned a lot!
NSR