My week - he calls

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Registered: 03-03-2006
My week - he calls
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Thu, 07-13-2006 - 9:11pm

My XH and I have every other week in summer up until the evening before school starts. It is my week (last Friday to tomorrow) our exchange time is 6 p.m.

I called the police on him last Friday (7th) he has a warrant but never heard anything.

Last documentation I received from the Friend of the Court was dated 05/20/06.

Spoke with caseworker last Friday (7th) she was very curt.

Took mini vacation up to my sister's cottage about 2 1/2 hr away. Mind you it is MY week I can go anywhere I want.

In the 3 days we were gone XH calls NOT MY HOUSE but my babysitter on Monday to see if DD was there. Babysitter said NO not today. He continues to go on and on about well how many days do you watch her, don't you watch her anymore and on and on and on. Tues he calls babysitter again and where is she, same goes on WEds and Today babysitter finally tells him that we are up NOrth. When I get home today I check caller ID and absolutely NO CALLS FROM XH.

He knows and the court knows that I am and have been in contract with my daycare provider since my DD was 3 months old that I would pay $75 a week no matter if my DD was there or not. My daycare provider would watch her whenever I needed her 6 a.m until 9 p.m. no extra charge. When I signed the contract our surrounding communities did NOT have kindergarten 5 days a week full day. Now they do. However when my DD went into 1st grade it would go "as needed basis" at a much lesser charge. These past 2 1/2 years my XH who said "he would do ANYTHING FOR OUR DD" was never able to come and get her, make her surgeries, doctor appts, graduations, etc. My babysitter did. My babysitter was able to go pick up DD on snow delays, 1/2 days, fog delays etc.

I think my XH thinks that I am ripping him off but I am not. When she goes to "as needed basis" I will inform the court. I don't need to lie.

Anyway he is NOT and has NOT paid child support which includes a small portion of child care. So what is he up to?

My few days away from it all was marred by this bunhole checking up on my DD. I DO NOT CALL HIM EVERYDAY TO FIND OUT WHERE OUR DD IS - HATE HIM. I could but why - I have no say where he takes her. If my DD calls me I will call her back. I have told her "Mom isn't going to call you just in case you are having fun and then dad says Mom is on the phone." Because believe me when she is playing she hates to be interrupted - serious stuff you know...

Also got a letter from Friend of the Court today regarding a hearing from May 23rd postponed until August 29th. WTF!!!!! He hasn't paid nothing.. then it says "to monitor for monthly payments.."

I hope when he goes in they keep him!!!

Thanks for reading!!!!

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 07-13-2006 - 11:39pm

Gheez!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~