need advice

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Registered: 03-22-2008
need advice
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Sat, 03-22-2008 - 3:40am

things have been going down hill for some time. My husband finally moved out last sunday. That day was horrible & the night even worse. I felt so alone in the big ol house with all his stuff gone. Monday morning he texted me telling me thanks for letting him get his stuff (he had left some important stuff behind & i put it on the front porch for him to get) I replied your welcome & he initiated a conversation. We both started talking & agreed to meet at my house when we got off work. We did & it was the most adult conversation, anger free, stress free, open, honest conversation we EVER had in our 6 years together. We came to the conclusion that we could still be friends &

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Registered: 01-28-2006
Sat, 03-22-2008 - 3:53am
Only you know when you're ready to move on. However, I personally do not trust him wanting to date others when he's already married. Sounds ludicrous to me. I think it may be an excuse to find someone new. I am sorry. Try to spend time with those who love you: your friends and family.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 11:49am
As long as it works for you, date him.... but unless he's going to be 100% committed to you and only you, no sex... period!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~