need advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-21-2008
need advice
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Fri, 03-21-2008 - 9:04pm

I need to know if anyone knows how to proceed in deeming an ex incompetent.


My ex is very twisted.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: mumoftwo2008
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 11:39am

Call the police each and every time he does something negligent (or have the neighbors call if he fails to show up on his specified time and the kids are left alone).


Eventually, a pattern will be established and he'll either see that he has to be responsible, or he'll lose his rights.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-21-2008
In reply to: mumoftwo2008
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 12:08pm
Thank you, I did end up calling the police.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: mumoftwo2008
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 12:09pm
Yes it is.... document everything.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-25-2003
In reply to: mumoftwo2008
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 12:44pm

Hi there mumoftwo,


I don't know how well (or badly) your divorce is proceeding.


If it looks like the divorce will take a long time, you should consider getting temporary orders.