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| Sat, 10-28-2006 - 7:29pm |
I'm finally going to mediation on Monday afternoon...does anyone have words of advice...besides the obvious keep my cool? I'm really nervous and think that butthead sbtx is going to pull some crap because all he cares about is hurting me, not what is best interest of ds, who is 5. He wants "his rights", which I could give a HOOT about, just don't think it is in ds best interest to go for overnights 1-1/2 hours away, in another state with stbx and ow in their "love nest". I think he should be introduced to her over time and not have her be a surprise when he does finally go to daddy's for the first time...any advice, any words of encouragement would be GREATLY appreciated...thanks!

luvnbnhome...
Sometimes SILENCE on your side can be more beneficial?
PG suggests that you let the idiot 'rant, rave and complain' to his heart's content. Then when it's your turn to speak...make the following statement:
"This type of behavior is the reason our marriage is impossible to continue!"
Then explain (as calmly as possible) what you've told us here. Hopefully, the mediator will see the difference between a lunatic (him) and a normal person (you)?
Good Luck!
Pianoguy
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
It was just the orientation to our mediation and he brought the HO with him!
I have only a few choice words, but don't want to get kicked off of the site for saying them...
I CANNOT BELIEVE that he brought her to our mediation.
I had it all planned, I'll keep my cool, calm and dignified...they walked in...I heard his voice, saw her shoes and didn't look up from my book. I could've DIED right there...sole purpose of that was to hurt me.
I COULD NOT HATE HIM MORE RIGHT NOW IF YOU PAID ME MONEY.
Sorry for the vent...
Next step is actual mediation, which I may just schedule during the day, so the HO can't make it.
Can anyone tell me why, after they cheat and lie, they have to flaunt it in your face?
I'm so glad that I don't have a sub job til Thursday, I could not handle 15 4-yr olds tomorrow.
somebody tell me I'm not some insane total bee-otch...
It just amazes me the these guys do not see that bringing their new hotties to these type proceedings is a LIABILITY!!!
Gheez!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~