Need advice about STBX & potential job
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Need advice about STBX & potential job
| Fri, 08-18-2006 - 11:43am |
Before my husband left me, I had applied for the same position he is in. He actually suggested it. It's good money and great benefits. There's an extensive background check for this job which includes checking up on family & friends. When he first left and shortly after, he said that he would not "bad-mouth" me or say anything to prevent me from getting this position. I wanted to stay civil with him because of this and because if I do get this position, we may one day have to work with each other. After yesterday's incident, I'm questioning if he would say anything damaging. When I first applied I didn't really care about getting it. But with my situation now, it's a very good opportunity for me - good money, good benefits, a schedule that I can switch around if I needed to especially if my daughter had something going on. I've really geared myself up to getting it. But now I'm rethinking whether I should just because how he was yesterday. If we were to work together or even see each other, it might become very ackward. I think that we can keep it all business-like during work hours. I guess I just would like feedback. What would you do if you were in my shoes? Should I continue to pursue this job?

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~