Need to get it done but it's so daunting

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Registered: 11-08-2007
Need to get it done but it's so daunting
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Thu, 11-22-2007 - 11:39am
So I've been supporting my STBX ever since we've been separated...over 3 years now! She makes noise every once in a while about working on her resume, but mostly works on her tan and gets her botox treatments. She'd love to stay on the gravy train as long as possible, so I have to go through all the effort related to the divorce. But I'm so tired, and it's all so misery-inducing that I feel like I'm losing my resolve to get it done.

Who's been here, and how did you summon the resolved to get it done?
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Registered: 05-12-2007
Thu, 11-22-2007 - 12:31pm

Not quite the same the same situation, but similar in some ways... my xh wanted the divorce...wanted and did move in with another woman... but when push came to shove, he didn't want to do anything to get the divorce finalized... why?

 


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