need help with caving with STBX

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2008
need help with caving with STBX
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Mon, 05-19-2008 - 8:38pm

I have had such great support in this group. He was up at the house 2x this weekend b/c the kids were home. But, he has contacted me everyday for the last five days!!! And then, I get thinking about contacting him etc. keep thinking about the kids and wanting to maintain contact. I know it's not right for him or me...I'm remaining strong not doing it, but any help in this would be appreciated!!! I DONT want to be WEAK!!!!! HELP GIRLS!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-27-2007
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 8:47pm

Having the same problem....


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2008
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:11pm

Hey Kate
Don't do it...Don't call him. Suck it up. He is probably manipulating you. BE STRONG. You don't need him, you can do what you need to do on your own!! You think DD doesn't know?? She probably does, and you would do well to keep her informed. Be strong!!! And keep us informed..

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2008
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:40pm
you pushed him away for the right reasons!! Keep strong...you need space to heal... give yourself time, and keep us posted!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-27-2007
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 10:40pm

I hear you about the rollercoaster....