Need Input....

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Fri, 05-30-2008 - 10:07am

I had printed out a divorce packet from the net....I gave it to my husband on mother's day....at 2 wks, he told me he didn't forget about them he just 'misplaced' them (lie of course)...turns out he took them to a lawyer to see what exactly we need to fill out....well if we do it ourselves, which this lawyer told us what to do and made notations it will cost about 250 to file this......or we can pay her 950, and go half and half......personally we don't have the extra money, I'm going back to school, he blows all the money and wouldn't have money for rent (which i'm still on the lease)......He's like whatever however you want to do it, I don't care...what would you guys do??


Also...I wrote a msg last time about how he's texting me for sex, well he's at it again!

 

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Registered: 10-25-2006
Fri, 05-30-2008 - 11:44am

Rox,


The downside of separation and divorce for either partner is celibacy. Your husband is trying to guilt you into sex. Don't take the ticket for the guilt trip! Tell him no.


Men seem to think that they can still have sex with you even when you're heart is no longer in it. That's partly because women tend to cave in more easily because they think sex will somehow make him come back or think differently. Not so!


If you give in you'll feel used. Stand your ground and tell him you aren't "putting out."


P.S. Don't reply to his texts. Don't even read them!


Good luck,

CL-Wisdomtooth2020


Some commonly misspelled words on this board:


You're = contraction of "you are"; You're going away?

CL-Wisdomtooth2020