need to make a choice. need input.

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Registered: 10-24-2006
need to make a choice. need input.
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Wed, 05-21-2008 - 2:19pm

Seems silly to post these life altering questions on a message board but I need opinions and thoughts.

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 4:53pm

Honestly, I don't know if your sanity can take another year of his alcoholism and ways. My H is an A and I couldn't do it for another year at this point. So I guess it depends on where you're at. I've done a year, several times, through the course of our 10 years together. But this time I'm really done. Even seeing him because of the children makes my skin crawl. If you think you can stick it out, it sounds like that might be better financially for you (so your house can be fixed up, the market might pick back up, etc.). But if you're to the point I am (SOOOO far gone and OVER his A ways)...then cut your losses and go.


GL Rocket. Alcoholics sure are fun, huh? NOT! ;)