Need Some Advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2011
Need Some Advice
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Wed, 11-02-2011 - 11:35am

I'm having a problem with the way my XH is dealing with child visitation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 11-02-2011 - 4:30pm

I wouldn't wait--I'd file for sole custody now--and I really hope that w/ the supposed 50/50 visitation it doesn't mean that he's not paying you child support.

Community Leader
Registered: 01-03-2004
Thu, 11-03-2011 - 7:59pm

Hi,

I agree with Music. Call your divorce attorney and tell him/her what's going on. Ask what your options might be for custody and what's involved. I think you have every right to be concerned about your children's welfare at all times, and certainly when they're supposed to be with their father.

It sounds like your EX just asked for joint custody to avoid paying child support (right)? Or, you figured why fight him about it. Now this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2011
Fri, 11-04-2011 - 9:00am

Thanks, Musiclover12.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 11-04-2011 - 11:10am

If you do end up taking him to court for custody or even to decrease visitation then you should also ask for an increase in c.s.

Community Leader
Registered: 08-25-2006
Fri, 11-04-2011 - 8:03pm

Hi Jenna,

Well, I always try to look at both sides of things.

Serenity