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need some advice!!
| Mon, 01-08-2007 - 7:56pm |
I need some advice on what to do now. My STBX and I have been seperated for over two years. We both have our own residences. My question is this. My STBX moved out and after the first four months of being split up he moved in with another womand her her three kids. Then, the bombshell...he wanted a divorce. Need mind you the divorce was set into motion almost two years ago and is still not final. We are going to have to file a bankruptcy to try and dig our way out of our debt. It took two years to get him to agree to this. Both lawyers said that we needed to get the bankruptcy filed before our divorce goes any further just to save us money. Still, STBX has not done any of the required paper work to get the bankruptcy going. Now he is saying that he does not want to do it. I am so frustrated. I have explained to him time after time how it will affect not only me but him if he doesnt cooperate to get this done. He so wants this divorce....but can not do the things that need to be done to get it over with already. Its like he needs me to do everything for him--almost like a mother. What should I do or say to get through to him?????

Sometimes, we do have to hold them by the hand to get what we want.
The next time he says that he doesn't want to file.... tell him that's not how he's acting! and that he'd better get with the program and help to get you BOTH out of limbo.
Past that... see if your attorney has any suggestions.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~