Need some advice and knowledge PLEASE

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Registered: 05-14-2003
Need some advice and knowledge PLEASE
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Mon, 03-03-2008 - 5:37pm

I've posted here before about my situation, my H is active duty Navy, he cheated on me and had a 3-4 month affair about 2 1/2 years ago.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-03-2008 - 6:13pm
Can you see anyone in the military that can help you with what your rights are?
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Registered: 01-16-2008
Mon, 03-03-2008 - 8:04pm
I am so sorry you are going through this! I would check with the military to see if they can offer any advice. Additionally, you can set up and file a temporary parenting plan, ( being temporary now you can limit the time with the children until you all can calmly evaluate your situation). It seems that these things are so painful, and we respond in an emotional way. Have you thought of using a mediator? I work with an (after I purchased it as a consumer :)- online software www.kids-first.com and I still use it to make changes to the parenting plan, as my children get older and their schedules change. This makes it so I don't have to speak to my ex- thereby no hard feelings and screaming fights! Which were common. I hope this helps!