need to vent

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Registered: 02-28-2007
need to vent
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Tue, 12-04-2007 - 8:29pm

well, the STBX called about a week ago, lets do the santa thing together, our son wants a wii so we began looking of course they are sold out all over town and the entire region.

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Registered: 11-28-2006
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 9:32pm

I know whereof you speak.

Not around Christmas presents (yet), but my stbx is dragging it out and spending money (cc and loans) to the point on near bankruptcy and won't pay his share of the extracurriculars and yet ... I need to be civil ... while he flushes our lives down the toilet?! And doesn't keep up with his financial responsibilities (much less marital -- that is SO history).

So, hope some how you can work it out.

Kids don't need this pricey stuff. He will believe in Santa even if Santa gets him something else. Really -- your love, your time with him, your simple gifts are what will last a life time.

Hugs,

M