New to all this..need advice

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Registered: 07-20-2008
New to all this..need advice
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Sun, 07-20-2008 - 6:22pm

Ok not sure how to start...so bare with me.....


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Registered: 07-20-2008
Sun, 07-20-2008 - 10:05pm

Heather,

I'm with you! I would feel miserable staying with someone who only wanted to stay because of they kids. If the kids are already adjusted to the idea of separation, half the work is done. I am hoping my kids will see the positives of not having a huge negative person in the house all the time.

Stay in touch and let us know how its going.

Wendy

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 1:16pm
I don't think that it is great for kids to see their parents who can barely tolerate each other or who are arguing.