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Sun, 04-27-2008 - 7:53pm
Just wondering if anyone out there has a similar situation to mine. Married 25 years, husband charged with fraud, theft last year in his white collar profession. Long story short, he's in denial, drinks like crazy, I stuck by him for the first 8 months, then kicked him out...had to save myself. Kids--one in university, other working full time, but both out of the home. Just dealing with the press is insane. I'm in the same profession he is in a small town, so pretty rough on us all (especially the kids).
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In reply to: horseanddoglover
Sun, 04-27-2008 - 9:05pm
i also hve been married for 25 years.
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In reply to: horseanddoglover
Sun, 04-27-2008 - 9:25pm
Geeze, I'm sorry for your situation. Thank goodness I don't feel like a fool at all. Exactly the opposite...I stuck by him when I thought I should (based on what I knew) and when I made the decision to kick his ass to the door, I felt good about it (doing the right thing). I just feel very badly for my kids having to deal with their Dad in this venue.