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Sun, 01-22-2006 - 3:12pm

Hello everyone,

My name is Taylor and I have been married for 7 years and we have been together for 10 years. We have two kids, my daughter is from a previous relationship.
She was just a baby when I met my husband and she doesnt know that he is not her biological dad..... That is a whole other story.

Divorce has been a constant thought on my mind for the last 3 years. I am not at all happy. My husband cheated on me 3 years ago, I got over it (as much as one can) and I started to do things for myself. That is where all the problems started. He started to accuse me of cheating. We had many fights about what I was wearing, I had to give exact times I would be home, he would call me several times a day so on and so on. This has not really changed, I have just gone back to being the person HE wants me to be.

To make a very long story short he is very controlling and is threatened by anything and everyone including my friends and family. I dont feel free to be the person I really am. And I dont want to wait around for him to change who he is.

I know I will be happier divorced but I just cant quite do it yet. I really dont know what I'm waiting for.....the worst has already come.

I'm hoping to get insight on what to prepare for.

Thanks for listening.

Taylor

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: taylor_33
Thu, 01-26-2006 - 7:45pm

Maybe, maybe not.... but whatever his motive is for keeping you on such a short leash, it's not healthy for the relationship.... and most times, when one spouse becomes overly interested in what you're doing... they, themselves are not telling the whole truth.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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