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Registered: 12-23-2003
New Here
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Mon, 10-10-2005 - 11:25am

I am new to this board and it's a place I never thought I'd be.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: mommytoisaac
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 3:41pm

mommytoissac...

First...Pianoguy thinks Issac is a real charmer. And the girls better watch out for him in another 12 or 13 years!

Second...arriving at the decision to divorce ISN'T EASY! But is "faking love" and doing everything you can think of to keep an unhappy marriage intact a better option? Your most difficult challenge will be to explain the events of the breakup to Issac when he's a little older?

Your husband's behavior really shouldn't surprise you though. YOU'VE DONE ALL THE WORK and he has coasted along.

So if you're absolutely sure there's no reason to work at your marriage any longer, find yourself a smart lawyer! Nobody can make your husband become more responsible for himself, but the legal system can certainly make him PAY for spousal and child support.

Just out of curiosity...when was the last time your husband had a complete physical? His 'denial of family' might indicate some sort of a chemical imbalance?

Pianoguy

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Registered: 12-23-2003
In reply to: mommytoisaac
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 3:50pm

He's been going to the doctor for high blood pressure and ADD issues so I'm guessing they did some type of physical while he was there.

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