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New here and I am SOOO glad to find this
| Fri, 05-02-2008 - 8:31pm |
Hello everyone! I am so happy to have found this message board. I have spent the last hour or so reading through the posts and feel so much better about things!! A little background...I filed for divorce after 14 years of marriage after spending 2 years of listening to ex tell me he did not love me anymore, right after I mention divorce suddenly he wanted me again. anyways, our divorce was final last week of feb of this year and he moved out 1 week later, we have four chilren 19-9 years old. the first 2-3 weeks were okay, the kids seemed to be adjusting i think they were more relieved in a way that the fighting had ended, by the fourth week i think it finally hit my dh that it was over and ever since then he has done everything to try and get me back, unfortunately with his behavior he has gotten the children all upset and now they blame me for everything and tells me after visitation how much daddy loves me, will do anything, etc., I have (i feel) my best to not lead him on and told him he needs to go on with his life and let go of the marriage, he just does not get it, now he thinks i am in such a hurry to get him to move on so i can date...not true but i can barely take his constant begging and pleading, it is not healthy for him, I or our children...any suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated

Hi michellem,
maybe you can try to set some boundries with him in regards to the kids.