New here and never thought I'd be here

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2007
New here and never thought I'd be here
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Wed, 09-26-2007 - 10:59pm

I feel like my life is in a total whirlwind.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2005
Thu, 09-27-2007 - 10:48pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-10-2007
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 3:50pm
I feel your pain. I also had the OW thrown up in my face and it has set me back alot. I will never understand how men can leave and start over when they have a family to think about. I am so angry at mine right now. He is trying to basically sell my house and buy a new one with her before our divorce is even final. I also struggling with not knowing who she is etc at least you can see her and know who she is.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2007
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 7:22pm
Today he wanted to know how much longer it would be until all my stuff is out.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-10-2007
Sat, 09-29-2007 - 12:58am
My stuff is still in the house but I am not. I have paid none of the bills on it since I left but he has given me no money for the kids so I guess we are even. Stay strong and I would not move anything until your lawyer tells you that you have too. You will be Ok and it will get easier as time passes. Good luck