New here- my (long) story

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2008
New here- my (long) story
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Sun, 08-24-2008 - 9:25am

Hello,


I just found this site this morning, and have spent the last two hours reading up. I have read bits and pieces of stories, and find that mine fits almost all the categories. What I lived as normal, is really so much more messed up than I thought! (How embarrassing!) My STBX has been out of the house since 8/7/08. Of course, it was all my fault, as I am reminded over and over again. He moved back in with his parents, after I told him he couldn't stay here anymore. The reason I told him he couldn't stay? He is "dating" someone at work. This was my birthday present from him, telling me he had a girlfriend. Again, it is my fault and I drove him to it. (surprise)

Kimberly Anne
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Registered: 07-30-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 9:32am

I'm sorry you are going through this and please lean on us through this process..


"This new  path I must lead will lead me to europhoria"

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 10:31am

Let me tell you that you are very strong and can do this.

Emom13

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2008
Sun, 08-24-2008 - 10:44am

Thanks ladies! It's hard here, my best friend doesn't even live near me anymore, and I ended up giving up pretty much everyone else when I got married. It's very lonely (even though my marriage was lonely as well) and after 9 years I get tired of being on my own emotionally. Not that I am looking for a man to fill that place (but good sex once in a while would be nice!), but I am finding women

Kimberly Anne