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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2011
New here too...
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Thu, 12-15-2011 - 10:54pm

I've been married 23 years and thought about leaving my husband many times but didn't because of our children.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 12-16-2011 - 12:31pm

Of course it's normal to feel scared & reluctant to bring this up.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2011
Fri, 12-16-2011 - 3:50pm
You're right I'm scared of change. And that a part of me hopes he'll break down and cry then beg me to reconsider. But he could be relieved and want the divorce too and that'll make it easier in the long-run but my ego would like to see him sorry for what he did. Thanks for the words of encouragement.