New Here...Need Advice

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Registered: 08-21-2004
New Here...Need Advice
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Mon, 06-05-2006 - 2:39pm
Hi My name is Laura and I have two little girls, a 10 month old and a 2 1/2 yr. old. I need some advice and don't feel like I have anyone I can trust right now. My husband left us last Sunday night in the middle of the night (I was asleep). This is not the first time he has done this, but this one has been worse than the others. He didn't answer my calls or emails for 4 days and then finally called on Thurs. to talk to our daughter. He came by on Sat. to see the girls for 2 hours and then when I asked him what was going on he just left without saying a word. He will not take any calls from me at all. I feel like I am being treated worse than an animal and he is holding all of the power. I am a stay home mom by his choosing and left college to marry him and move out of state. We have been married for 4 years and I just don't understand why he has done this. We've had our fights recently, but nothing I thought of as marriage ending. I can't keep living this way, but I'm not sure I can support my children and myself if I divorce him. I am so sad and confused I just don't understand what is going on in his head. I really don't think he is having an affair, but who knows at this point. My 2 1/2 year old is taking it really hard, too. What should I do and what is up with him? Any advice would be so appreciated. Thanks
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 06-05-2006 - 3:07pm

Hi!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~