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| Mon, 06-13-2005 - 1:48pm |
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I'm new at this. I'm 25 and have now decided to leave my husband of 7yrs. The story is I've been wanting a baby for 3yrs now and at first he did too. He kept saying lets wait until after new years (2005) to start trying. Well, its June 05 and now he says he never wanted kids. I'm thinking what happened to all these yrs of telling me he wanted a baby too and picking out names. I'm so confused. So I told him if he really didn't want kids then I wanted a divorce. He hasn't tried to stop me from moving. I decided since i'm on vacation for a week in July, I'll move then. That gives me time to find an apartment. I really dreed starting over. How do you go on? How do you start over? I'm lost. We love each other very much but we aren't on the same page. Help!!
I'm new at this. I'm 25 and have now decided to leave my husband of 7yrs. The story is I've been wanting a baby for 3yrs now and at first he did too. He kept saying lets wait until after new years (2005) to start trying. Well, its June 05 and now he says he never wanted kids. I'm thinking what happened to all these yrs of telling me he wanted a baby too and picking out names. I'm so confused. So I told him if he really didn't want kids then I wanted a divorce. He hasn't tried to stop me from moving. I decided since i'm on vacation for a week in July, I'll move then. That gives me time to find an apartment. I really dreed starting over. How do you go on? How do you start over? I'm lost. We love each other very much but we aren't on the same page. Help!!

Hi Stacy... would he be willing to go to counseling "to sort things out to help you understand better, on a rational level, why he's changed his mind"????
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~