Newly divorced and in need of help
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| Tue, 07-15-2008 - 8:23pm |
My marriage of 8 years is over. I don't know how to even being to cope with this. All I can think of is getting him back. I know I am the reason to blame for our separation but I never thought it would come to this. First I never received any subpoena in the mail or via process server, so no I didn't see it coming. We were separated and I moved in with my mother but I thought it was temporary. I thought we would get back together. Now he has a girlfriend but he keeps sleeping with me. I ask if we can get back together but he says time heals all wounds and maybe in the future but as of right now he says no. He invites me over occasionally and he seems to miss me but he still says that he is hurt. I love him more than ever and I can't cope with the fact that he's seeing someone else and still sleeping with me.

I am sorry for your pain.
I agree with alady.
To be really blunt--he keeps seeing you cause you're willing to have sex w/ him.
Christina,
I had the same issue with my first husband.