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| Tue, 02-06-2007 - 4:51am |
Hi,
I am just recently seperated. Actually 2 days separated. I don't know if we will get divorced but it is looking like it.
We did try marriage counseling and I thought we were doing ok. He felt we were sliding back into our old habits and made arrangements to move out last week. He hit me with all of this on Sunday night after I got home from work. I know I haven't been the best wife. I held affection and sex from him for a number of years.
I have made an appointment with a therapist on thursday. I have issues that I need to work on.
I am just not sure now how to handle things like finances, our house, the kids. I have been a SAHM for the last 9 years just working part time.
I am not sure if this is the right board to post on but I am at a real loss as to what to do next. If anyone knows of another board that might be a better fit please let me know. I couldn't find one when I was looking.
Thanks,
susan

Welcome! You are in the right place. This is a great board. Lots of support. Will say more later, but gotta try and get some school work done (back in school so I can go back to work to support my kids). I too am a SAHM; been out of work for 6 1/2 years. In the early stages of planning separation/divorce. It is hard.
Stick around. There is lots of wisdom here!
M