no kids but considering DIVORCE
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no kids but considering DIVORCE
| Tue, 01-24-2006 - 10:05pm |
I've been married to my husband for 1 year but we dated for 5 years b/f the marriage..i had serious doubts about marrying him even b/f the wedding..i even considered cancelling the marriage...but i ended up marrying him partly to make my parents & family happy...and b/c i was afraid to end the marriage b/c i was afraid to be alone, etc...NOW i've been married 1 year and i am MISERABLE...we don't really have anything to talk about , we have NO SEX or our sex life is very BORING...i dont even want him to touch me...(he's a nice guy- it's not b/c he's done anything bad to me) ...i'm constantly thinking about other men and fantasizing about other men...but i'm afraid to get a divorce b/c of family stigma, societal gossip, afraid that i;'ll never find another man who'll love me...one last thing...I dont think i was ever in love w/my husband but i think i just married him b/c we were together for 5 years...WHAT SHOULD I DO????
(p.s. we fought during our honeymoon and barely had any sex!!!!)
(p.s. we fought during our honeymoon and barely had any sex!!!!)

amee2006...
Pianoguy is SOOO HAPPY you wrote about your situation. Simply because it proves that people who date or have known each other for a long time AREN'T necessarily supposed to be MARRIED!
If you sincerely believe that your life would BETTER without your husband, write down the pros and cons of LIFE ALONE on a piece of paper. Don't use the 'lack of sex' element as your only reason...because as much you'd probably like to behave like rabbits do (they go at it all the time)...YOU CAN'T!
Check over your list carefully. Then...if you want to...show the list to your husband. Otherwise, verbally explain (to him) your reasons for divorce.
He'll HAVE to respond to them in some way. And his response(s) will determine what you should do next?
Good Luck!
Pianoguy